first off… thank you for responding, and quickly.
im not sure what words are need to make it clear, that i do not have any anti virus any thing. (anti virus was a common thing i seen on every post, so that was done before i posted) even defender is disabled because of how much it was slowing down my computer, i went out of my way to disable it… was a real pain to disable on win 10, but since im back on win 7 it was a bit easier to disable… and we dont have to worry about some bloat ware install i dont know about.
now i have not tried that specific version of .net, so i will try that once i get home…
and about changing the .ini file, that does seem helpful because when i launch skyrim any ways the error i get does says something about not seeing a rift. i was assuming that is why i needed to get to the config screen. but that alone might at least get it working with out the config screen.
any ways, i will try these things tonight. thank you again for responding.